....TrAfFiC LiGhT.....

“Love is like a traffic light there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to stop, to let go and to take action”

STOP (red light)
“Loving someone so much doesn’t mean they’re the right one for us”
Hindi laging may happy ending kapag nagmahal ka, because true love never ends.
May mga pagkakataong mararamdaman mo ang sakit na dulot ng pagmamahal mo.
Masakit isiping may mga taong hindi kayang magpahalaga sa mga taong nagmahal sa kanila.
Sabi nga….
“Its better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never really see your worth.”
Habang patuloy mong minamahal ang taong yun mas lalo kang masasaktan
Dahil… Natatakot kang tanggapin ang maaari pang mangyari.
na ang taong buong puso mong minahal ay bulag sa pagmamahal mo.
Hindi dahil mahal mo ang taong yon, sya na talaga ang para sayo.
Natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinakamamahal mo.
Pero siya ba takot ding mawala ka.?

LETTING GO (green light)
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up,
But rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.
May mga bagay sa mundong ito na hindi nakatakda para sa atin.
Maaring ang mga bagay na ninanais natin na maging sa atin sana, ay iyon pa ang hindi kailanman magiging atin.
Kailangan mong matutong magparaya “let go” upang maka move on at maka get over tayo sa sakit ng ating nakaraan.
Loving someone is letting them free, letting them go…
Masakit?
Oo.. Para sa katulad mong nagmahal.
Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away
And going away means forgetting…
To let go its not to deny but to accept that the hardest thing to do is letting go..
Not because you want to, but because you have to.
May mga taong darating sa buhay natin na siyang muling magbabangon sa atin sa kabila ng pait ng nakalipas.
Huwag nating isarado ang ating puso…
Dahil….
Sa tayoy nagparaya….
Nagmahal….
O nasaktan.
Kundi may taong handang pumasok muli….

TAKE ACTION (yellow light)
While someone breaks your heart, another someone else is waiting to fix it.
Proceed with caution..
“Careful forethought to avoid danger or harm”
Natatakot tayong masaktan…
Natatakot tayong harapin ang pwedeng mangyari….
Natatakot tayong magmahal muli….
Kaya nga nauso ang salitang “courage”
Yon ang kailangan natin to “take action”
Kung ang traffic light ay may yellow light para sa caution sign,
Sa love ganun din kung alam nating masasaktan lang tayo at di maaaring pumapel…
Huwag na nating pahirapan ng husto ang ating sarili…
Kumbaga sa elevator, Kung alam na nating siksikan na.
Huwag na tayong magsumiksik pa.
May hagdan naman ayaw lang nating pansinin…

Stop
Let go
Take Action
Traffic Light

By: Kabiguan Ni Papet

......PaRa Sa KaNyA......

I missed you so much, Before I waited for three years to have my wish granted.. now I wasted another three years of trying to know myself better. I know I became so selfish that I didn't tell you anything about what's happening with me. I just wanted to find my soul. I found myself here in Manila. I learned a lot, I gained so much knowledge about life.. For so many times that I tried to send you message on your facebook account, I just don't understand that I couldn't make any good one to explain my side. I know I was so unfair, and I guess I've caused you so much pain. Sorry, I Just thought that what we were doing was wrong that's why I tried to find the best way to correct everything. While I was searching for that correction, I learned that I've been doing the biggest mistake of my life for almost three years. And just yesterday, I met my fault, I was so stupid to try to forget the best thing that happened in my life.. I love you. and it has never gone. I hope you will accept my apology.

.....Ex GiRLfRiEnD nAnAmAn.....

1. After 1 year of not seeing
each other, muli mong nakita ang ex mo.
Ano ang magiging reaction mo?
* aysus! kmusta? diin ka na sbung?

2 . Saan nakalagay ang picture ng ex
mo?
* sa karton upod na ang sss number ko, nbi clearance ko,
kag iban pa nga papeles!

3. Nakasalubong mo ang dati mong
bestfriend na GF/BF na ng ex mo
ngayon. Ano ang gagawin mo?
* anu tulok mo??? sinumbag ta ka karun!

4. Tinetext mo pa ba ang ex mo?
* nope!

5. May nagbalita sa yo na naaksidente
daw ang ex mo. How would you react?
* ha? diin sya subong??? (buhi pa?)

6. Ano ang naka-entry na name ng ex mo
sa cellphone mo?
* wala na!

7. Kailan ka huling dumaan sa favorite
restaurant nyo ng ex mo?
* dugay dugay na! ka layo bi sang port!

8. When was the last time you heard
news about your ex?
* dugay dugay na! kay gin isolate ko
self ko sa friends namun!

9. Nabalitaan mo na ikakasal na ang ex
mo. Ano reaksyon mu?
* tuod??? san-o??? okay lang ah! (pro
yudifota ma hibi ko akun ya naunahan ya ko!)

10. What's your usual reaction kapag
napapakinggan mo ang theme song nyo ng
ex mo?
* pabungol lang (kuno abi baduy pro sakit)!

11 . After your break-up, ano ang
ginawa mo to recover?
* wala lang! tambay sa port! inum red
horse! (ngita ka tawo nga ma tapungol sa
akun!)

12. Kung meron kang gustong ibigay sa
ex mo, ano yun?
* anu hay???? damu damu nga questions
gid gru! or test questions galin sa
akun! tani masabat ya tanan sakto!

13. Kung gagawing pelikula ang love
story nyo ng ex mo, ano ang gusto mong
maging title?
* Revenge, Ganti, Balus!?

14. Kapag nakipagbalikan ang ex mo,
tatanggapin mo ba sya uli?
* call me back some other time im busy
ryt now! joke! depende gru sa mga
answers ya sa test questions...

15. After nyong mag-break, how long
did it take bago ka makahanap ng iba?
* until now.... single man ghapon status
ko sa friendster! ambot san-o pa ni ma in a relationship ah.
di man ko ya mag
butang its complicated, masal-an naman
ko nga myembro ka federasyon!

1 6. You walk into a restaurant at
nakita mo ang ex mo dining out with a
date. Ano ang gagawin mo?
* ma walk out ko akun ya! take out lang
order ko miss damu langaw di sa place
nyo! di ko kasahu! ay ara da gali kmu???

17. Complete the sentence. "Ang
natutunan ko sa naging relationship namin..."
* TRUST and be HONEST in any kind of love.

18 . Kung bibigyan ka ng Fairy
Godmother mo ng chance to turn back
time, gugustuhin mo pa bang balikan
ang nakaraan nyo ng ex mo?
* yes! and correct all my mistake but i
guess too late na gid!

...PaRa Sa NaWaWaLaNg Ex Ko....

supeman! pinatay si captain barbel! hahhahahhahhah! Nanood kami kahapon ang favorite kong superhero (si Superman). Bata pa lang ako eh, idol ko nay un, ginagaya ko nga lagi yun noong bata pa ako, lalambitin ako sa sanga ng puno ng mangga sa may amin tapos feel na feel ko ang paglipad. habang pinapanood ko itong si superman na alala ko tuloy ang X-gf ko (pareho kasi kaming fan i\ni superman). Kasi noong kami, pinaggagastusan namin yang mga collectibles na magazine ni superman!.Kamusta ka na kaya? Ako? Hmn… paano ko ba sasabihin… kontento naman ako, minsan masaya, minsan malungkot, minsan hyper at madalas walang pera at gaya ng inaasahan wala pa din syota, oo.. hindi naman kasi ako katulad ng iba na isang iglap lang eh may kapuluputan na.

Hanggang ngayon eh, “just looking around” pa din ang status sa friendster ko. Nabubwiset na nga ako eh, di ko alam kung kelan magiging, “In a relationship” ang status na yan. Hay, ayoko naman ilagay yung “It’s complicated” at baka mapagkamalan na naman akong isa sa mga federasyon. Kaylan kaya ulit maging “In a relationship” ang friendster ko??? Pag nangyari yun, magpapakatay ako ng manok sa probinsiya at magcecebrate, tapos ililibre ko din sa andoks ang lahat ng tao sa opisina namin, pramis!

Wag mo sanang isipin na di pa ako nakaka-move on, tapos na yun sa akin, kita mo nga at nagagawa ko ng tumawa at muli ay mabaho na naman ako, nagagawa ko na ding kumanta sa CR habang naka-upo sa trono, dati kasi eh kahit sa pag-ebak eh na-iisip kita (ha ha ha, grabe talaga ang kakornihan ko pag inlab, pati ebak nadadamay).

Alam mo maswerte ka kasi nga isa ka sa tinatawag kong “Good ones”, kaya eto ako, si “Better One” naiwan. Alam ko din na malabong mabasa mo itong entry na ito he he he, ala lang, malay mo, may kakilala yung kakilala ng kakilala mo tapos sabihin sa iyo, eh at least magka-usap at magkita ulet tayo.

Pero wag kang mag-alala dahil ala na sa akin yung past, naisip lang naman kita at ako’y nangungumusta.....



Prens pa din naman tayo di ba?

a letter for someone so special....

bakit ganun, parang everything has changed. kahapon lang, okey tayo. pero now that we're living in our own different dimensions, iba na rin ba? or is it only me? yikes. maybe i've expected too much. we were close. right. kaso baka i've interpreted it in a different light. mahirap talaga yung ganito. maybe you just see me as a friend. a close one, that is. i dont want to tell you how i feel naman kase baka mag-iba yung takbo ng paligid. sabi ng ibang friends, i should let you know my feelings daw. nyek, okey lang sila? i dont want to risk the friendship. alam mo, ngayon ko lang ulet nafeel to. i mean, when we're together, masaya ako. sobra. not because i like you. but because we're friends. nakakatuwa. i could just tell you anything and everything. hindi ako nahihiya. no pretensions whatsoever. kaso ang dami rin diyan na ganun din yung tingin sayo. i know im not the only one. ang friendly mo kase. you could just be anyone's bestfriend. as much as i would like to be your closest, im not demanding you to be. this time, i would teach myself not to expect anything from you. mahirap. ive learned this thing many times already. and this time, i dont want to make things difficult again, specially for me. i have to leave these concerns, of course with the Lord. i thank God for knowing you. for being your friend. kahit hindi bestfriend. ayos lang. thanks. you made me write again. i havent expressed myself maybe for the past months. im back.. and im wanting to write more. but this time, without giving misinterpretations to everything. i would leave things as they are. and if God has a different purpose for the both of us, then so be it. i wouldnt take things in my hand. God will. and i would like to say these matters to Him. Lord, You know how i feel towards this person. i just thank You and i truly appreciate this friendship. at this point, i dont want to expect anything in return. i know how it feels to get disappointed and frustrated, and i just pray that You would take the lead in this friendship. guide my feelings. and if ever, his feelings as well. Lord, if You would lead this friendship into something greater, then thanks! but if You plan otherwise, still salamat pa rin. just hold my heart. i know You have greater plans than i do. and Your thoughts are not like mine. You know what's best. and i would like to entrust You all these things. Father, please please hold my heart. sometimes i just dont know when i can be at my weakest. im willing to give this thing up to Your hands, Father. SALAMAT NG MARAMI. as for you, i dont know if you'll ever know this feeling that i have. i dont know what's next but i know, everything is perfect in God's hands. im giving you up. not because i dont like you anymore. not because im not looking forward of knowing you better.. not because im not eager to spend those brighter days ahead.. but actually, im giving you up because i want God to be God. ive been always praying for you. and it wont end there. to God be the glory. there. im just so happy kase ive learned to give her up last year pa. that was my Christmas gift to God and to myself. enjoy naman ang singlehood at masaya rin dahil siguro mas naa-appreciate ko yung friendship ngayon. wla kase akong ine-expect eh. haha. ang saya niya maging kaibigan. di ko papakilala sa inyo at baka maging masaya rin kayo. hahahaha. may isa lang akong hiling. wish ko lang may blogspot account siya diba. haha. para mapadali ang buhay. :-)